Why should parents want their young college men to be in SigEp?
And why should any young college man want to be in SigEp?
Well, there is really only one word. And that is simply -
SIGEP!! But for those of you who need more than one word
that you have no idea what means, we have a little more
incentive, and that's the Balanced Man Project.
First implemented by Sigma Phi Epsilon in the fall of 1992, the
Balanced Man Project is the Fraternity's leadership development
program. It is a self-paced membership experience for
undergraduates that is based on achievement in the chapter and
the community.
The Balanced Man Project builds brotherhood by developing
individual members through mentoring and community service.
Brotherhood is also strengthened by developing the group through
chapter experiential learning activities and enhanced Ritual
ceremonies. As members progress through the challenges,
their ability to lead and serve will be tested and, through
mentoring, nurtured.
Implementing the Balanced Man Project provides chapters with
Many advantages including:
Group
activities which provide increased opportunities for brotherhood
and
fun;
Many
different Mentors throughout college;
Opportunities
to have an impact in the community through service-learning;
Improved
academic support through mentoring and goal setting;
New
support materials which provide guidance for the personal
development of each member.
Utilization
of community Mentors in addition to alumni volunteers.
The Journey to a Balanced Life is perhaps the best way
to describe The Balanced Man Project. It is a program
based on the concept of life as a continuous Journey. This
Journey will be marked by many challenges. Sigma Phi
Epsilon is striving to better prepare its members to face and
surmount these challenges by providing one of the most
innovative programs in the fraternity world.
Supported and encouraged by the fun and excitement of
fraternal life, a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon will move through The
Journey of Brotherhood. The completion of each stage
in the Journey is self-determined. You set your own goals
and create your own plans for the achievement of those goals.
There is an emphasis on involvement both in the community and in
the chapter through service to others and active participation.
With the experience and exposure provided by working in these
settings, you will be empowering yourself to become an effective
leader.
Throughout this journey, you are never alone. In each
stage of the Journey, you will be given or you will recruit a
Mentor - that is, someone who is more experienced to help you
along the way. These Mentors will provide the necessary
support and encouragement to ensure success throughout your
chapter experience. Each successful step along your
Journey will be marked by a rite of passage in which the chapter
celebrates the success of all of it's members.
For more detailed information on the
Balanced Man Project and Sigma Phi Epsilon click
here.
Mentoring
A mentor is an individual who serves as a positive role model
and is a source of support and guidance. A mentor oversees
the development of his Mentee by teaching, counseling, and
supporting him in his endeavors.
Historically, such relationships are varied and involve
different levels of interaction. Examples of mentoring
relationships are:
Vince Lombardi and the Green Bay Packers
Yoda and Luke Skywalker
Batman and Robin
John F. Kennedy and millions of Americans
As a Mentee, you will have the opportunity to learn. As a
Mentor, you will have the opportunity to teach and positively
influence a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon. Mentors are the
stewards of the Fraternity's cardinal principles.
Service-learning
Service-learning involves direct contact and personal effort in
meeting the needs of the community. It is an opportunity
to bring people of different backgrounds and experiences
together for mutual benefit.
Philanthropy is raising money for a cause.
Service-learning involves selfless volunteering that impacts
your community. Service-learning provides you with the
opportunity to learn from others.
A service-learning project could mean working to feed the
homeless, providing day care for the children of working
mothers, or tutoring adults in a literacy program. It
could also mean building a house, driving an elderly neighbor to
the grocery store, or working in an animal shelter.
Whatever the size or type of community, the opportunities for
sevice-learning are plentiful and varied.
Service-learning is critical to leadership development.
Through service projects, you will become a balanced individual
who has developed empathy for his neighbors, a broader world
view, and a dedication to responsible citizenship for a
lifetime.
Experiential
Learning
From every experience you have in life you can learn a valuable
lesson. Some of these experiences are more structured than
others, with experiential learning activities being one of the
more structured. An experiential learning activity is a
planned challenge that requires chapter participation,
problem-solving, and cooperation. SigEps create
brotherhood through individual contributions to these group
activities. Examples of experiential learning include high
ropes courses and team building activities such as trust falls.
The frequency of these activities contributes to the
leadership development of a chapter's members.
Experiential learning enhances your self-awareness and increases
your self-confidence. This, in turn, will sharpen your
leadership skills. Another benefit of experiential
learning activities is that they nurture brotherhood by
improving chapter communication, motivation, and cooperation.
Experiential learning builds and maintains a strong brotherhood!
Brotherhood
Men join the Fraternity for fellowship, the opportunity to
experience personal growth, and brotherhood. Brotherhood
is the fourth component of the Balanced Man Project. It is
addressed by providing many opportunities, both traditional and
innovative, for the members of the Fraternity to enjoy their
college years. The traditional opportunities are formals,
homecomings, and sharing meals. The innovative
opportunities involve groups of men participating in community
service projects, experiential activities, and mentoring.
The advantage of the Balanced Man Project lies in the fact
that the traditional components of brotherhood do not change.
The first three components of the Balanced Man Project -
service-learning, experiential learning, and mentoring - all
work together to provide new opportunities for the increased
enjoyment of fraternal life and brotherhood. The variety
of group activities in Balanced Man Project chapters results in
increased enjoyment of college life and a more fulfilling
fraternity experience for all those involved.